Live-In with Shahid Kapoor

For all his female fans out there, how would it be to live-in with Shahid Kapoor? If you have ever wondered, here is  peek into the celeb's likes, dislikes, and more.  

This analysis is based on his handwriting sample, a letter he wrote to Starboxoffice.com after they positively reviewed his film Kaminey.

Shahid Kapoor's Handwriting Sample:

  

Courtesy Starboxoffice.com

§  Shahid Kapoor's Handwriting Analysis:

A) Belief-system influencing overall personality, behavior & habits:

This person is ruled by his likingness for being lovable and friendly, his love for art and music, and a continuous striving to achieve balance in life.  All other areas of his life are affected by these 3 major factors very prominently reflecting through his handwriting.

B) Personality

Shahid likes being optimistic.  He enjoys being the person who’ll always talk positive about the future.  If his mood gets droopy, he immediately improves it using his love for art, music, painting and dancing; or by simply letting his hair loose and partying.  Currently though, there is a struggle going on within him to continuously lift up his spirits as there is something that is troubling him and jabbing at his optimism.

He’s not spendthrift.  He’ll try to economize in all areas of his life and will never try to play ‘catch up with the joneses’.  He likes shopping though, and will always look for bargain and value-for-money deals rather than splurging.  But recently, he has found himself spending more than he usually does.  Maybe he’s resorting to retail-therapy to help him lift his spirits or is enjoying his recent career successes by splurging.

The man has a dislike for boundaries.  As a child he was surely rebellious, and doing everything he was asked not to do.  This he did not because he was naughty, but just because he was curious enough to find out what happens if he did what he isn’t supposed to do; and partly to prove that he doesn’t believe the limits he’s being asked to follow make any sense.  And that he knows better.

Currently, he’s struggling to create balance in his life.  He perceives certain areas of his life as imbalanced and he craves to balance them.  He is trying hard to impose self-control and become emotionally self-sufficient; and only time will tell if he succeeds or buckles under pressure & has a breakdown.

C) Academics

He was the naughty boy in class, always upto something.  But he was also the sweet friendly boy with lots of friends and the teacher’s pet.  He probably was not a maths-n-science person and loved extra curricular activities.  He would have keenly participated in sporting competitions, annual days etc.

D) Relationships

D.1) Romance

He has a good sex drive.  He enjoys his intimate moments and loves long intimate sessions, especially at exotic locations.  Dirty places are a turn off for him; so gals, try tidying up your room, lighting scented candles and flicking on Chinese lanterns before you think about getting lucky with Shahid.  His partner needs to be clean too.  He probably also finds it attractive when the girl leaves her jewelry or her heels on.

He gets attracted to artistic women; who share his zest for art and music and brim with energy.  Girls who mistake him simply as the party-boy without peeping into the myriad visions inside his heart, will miss out on what he seeks in his woman.

It’s interesting for girls to know that he is only attracted to challenging women.  If you are super sweet and friendly and have the girl next door simplicity (basically qualify to be an Indian ‘bahu’), you might fail at attracting him.  Until you can give him the thrill of the hunt, he might just be disinterested.  Surely he prefers Veronica over Betty, anyday.

He’s secretive.  He tends to hide his emotions, fears, doubts; and only comes across as a friendly sweet romantic person.  So his partner needs to ensure that she gets good at making him talk his heart out, or the relationship will remain incomplete and he’ll drift apart .

He’s a loyal person who’ll remain committed to his partner.  He is faithful and trustworthy. 

The girl who will make a home run with him will ideally be matured, playful and witty.  She should also be outgoing and sexy.  It is important that she allows him to live out his childishness while also providing him the emotional anchor and security that he looks for from a woman.  If she’s wild and defiant, things may not last long between them. 

Currently, Shahid is not exactly in the right frame of mind to handle a healthy relationship.  Someone who tries to get close will find it difficult and prickly to try and get through his heart and get him to care to her and be sensitive to her.  This is not his true self though; just a current & temporary state of mind.

D.2) Friend

He loves to be the host and throw parties.  He loves to party and will not hesitate to throw one himself if there is nothing happening over the weekend. 

He’s friendly, warm and approachable.  Actually, he’s pretty much as sweet in real-life as he looks on the screen.  He’s a great friend to have who’ll be by your side in times of need.  Btw, be sure you give him a hug when you see him, he surely loves to give and receive hugs [well girls.. you just found a good enough excuse to hunt him down and hug him ;) ]

He’s also soft spoken and his speech generally has no sharp edges.  He comes across as cultured, well-behaved and very much the boy you can take home to meet your parents (and to their liking).

The man’s a very good listener.  He’ll listen to you while you pour your heart out.  And when you’re done, he’ll get up and give you a big warm hug.  He’s just the friend to have! 

E) Emotional Outlook

He has an interesting combination of being sensible and being childish at the same time.  He likes to live in-the-moment and likes to think and act quickly.  He dislikes people who take too much time to start and are busy analyzing.  And he’s one person who will not suffer from “analysis-paralysis”.  A risk taker, you can count upon him when initiatives are involved.

He’s secretive, extremely secretive.  Even his own shadow cannot claim to know what he’s really upto inside his heart. 

Though he’s very friendly and sweet, he’s prone to emotional outbursts which take people aback, as they don’t expect him to behave agitated.

He’s currenly carrying resentment in his heart, and this resentment is from his recent past, not from his childhood.  Something happened which has scarred him emotionally and he is unable to get over it.  The resentment makes him feel agitated and not totally in control of his emotions, and he doesn’t like being out of control.  This is in turn creating more agitation and he’s finding it difficult to forge new healthy relationships due to this resentment.

His self-esteem is not at an all-time high.  His self-image has taken a beating.  This is simply adding to the trouble he’s facing to remain optimistic, positive and cheerful about life.  He surely needs to build himself up in his own eyes.  With his abilities he’ll surely be able to do it; but the sooner he can do it the better.  His traits of independence, concentration and a love for partying and dancing can help him overcome self-doubt and regain happiness.

F) Career

He is initiative-driven and not risk-averse.  In fact, he hunts for out-of-ordinary roles and scripts.  Unlike SRK he would never want to do similar roles (i.e. with his name as Rahul everytime he pops up on screen, or him as the proverbial loverboy doing similar scripts year after year); as this will not make him stand out as unique.  He craves to be popular but by being unique.  He wants the world to notice and remember him for his ability to be different and he wants to add creative value to the industry. 

But that does not mean he’ll jump at an opportunity just because it’s ‘different’.  He likes to think, analyze, act; and usually in that order. 

He’s a focused person who works with complete concentration.  He is difficult to distract once he gets going.  This trait coupled with his strength to persist when things are not going his way, makes him a winner in his profession.  Bad luck only makes him work harder.

He does not like being overloaded with projects and enjoys having simpler manageable schedules.  Currently too, he does not seem overloaded with work and is able to manage his time and projects well. 

He likes precision and clarity.  He dislikes long meetings at work and people who just won’t come to the point.  He also likes to put things in black and white before he’ll move on with a project; so that confusions and misunderstandings don’t crop up later and hamper the project’s progress.  In fact, he’d rather let go of a project than begin it with doubts.  Hence, if you approach him with a script, make sure you know what you want and the results you are out to get; or he simply will dis-consider. 

If not for an actor, he would have also done well as a travel show host, a professional dancer, music critic, art critic, interior designer, art designer, in-store merchandiser or advertiser..

G) Hobbies

Anything that provides for physical expression will attract him.  No wonder he’s so good at dancing – he has the physical drive and the unbroken flow of thoughts.  He probably is a good painter as well.  He would also do well in sports and might have been a good sportsperson since childhood.

The man simply loves artistic things.  He has an ability to sense the beauty in a building, in a painting, a sculpture or a symphony.  He likes to be a self-proclaimed art & music critic and he is very good at it too.  He probably dreamed of becoming an artist or a musician in his early years, but found dance as a better form of expression. 

H) Appearance

He’ll select what he wears and likes to create his own fashion and style.  He is not driven by the fashion trends and will always pick his own clothes.  He’ll tend towards clean and artistic designs and his fashion is not simplistic.  He uses his choice of clothes as a way to stand out from the crowd, rather than fit into it.

He’s a rebel who likes elegance.  That’s an interesting combination and it makes his fashion sense unique and worth following.  There is a good chance that he disliked his recent makeover in Dil Bole Hadippa where he has been made to look like SRK, and he dislikes it simply because he was made to look like someone else. 

His room and table are messy and unkept.  However he is not disorganized.  He exactly knows where his things are.  And so he considers no need to put things in order simply so that others may appreciate him for the same.  He is not an approval-seeker.    

I) Signature

His signature shows a good healthy ego and self-esteem; which is different from what his handwriting shows.  So though he is confident face out in the crowd, he’s really not feeling upto it at the moment.   He also has very strong physical drives and enjoys putting the best of his energy to complete the tasks at hand and also indulge in forms of physical expression such as sports, dance and sex.

One important thing his signature shows is that he rates family above self.  He’s a family person who desires a happy life with his wife and kids and probably wants to live in a joint family.

J) Overall Conclusion

He is a wonderful human being, multi-faceted and talented.  He is wonderful at physical expression and enjoys partying and hanging out with friends.  He also is a winner at work and doesn’t give in to bad luck.  However, he needs to do away with resentment and the craving to create balance in his life.  He also needs to open up a little and not be so secretive and stop assuming that that friends & family will know what he wants through telepathy.  He does not seem to be much of a reader, and it is important that he cultivates this habit and reads non-fiction and self-help/spiritual books.  He can also add meditation to reading which will help to anchor his mind and gain the much desired self-control he craves for.

Analysis by:
Phalgun Kumar
Handwritingzen.com